It is when we have broken up with our ex that we then know that we need 4 tips to get ex back in my arms. It is within the cool off period that we think about our ex and wish that what ever happen never happened. In my case my ex dumped me because i went out one night and got drunk, then went round to her house at six am and started knocking on her door.

The son opened his window on the first floor and told me that his mum was not in and that she had gone to Manchester the day before to see her sister. So i staggered home and went to sleep. Later on i was awoken by a text message. I was still drunk because i had a few drinks before going to bed. I read the message and it was from my girlriend. She said that i was out of order and how dare i knock at her house at that time in the morning. I tried to ring her immediately but she refused to answer the phone.

So i sent her a rude text calling her names of all sorts. She sent me a text back saying good riddance and that it was over between us. Later on when i sobered up i feltt a big remorse. I wish i had not been rude to her. I told my friend about it and this is what he told me to do:

#1 Do not text or call her for about two weeks.

In doing this it will give her time to cool down and start to miss having you around. Also it will give you time to plan your strategy of getting your ex back. It will be very hard not to try and contact her all this time but that is the essence of the strategy. It will make her think a thousand thoughts about you.

#2 Restablish contact with a text message out of the blue.

After about two weeks text her and just ask her if she is alright. If she does not reply send her another text and say that you are sorry for what you said and that you would like to appologize in person and you will let her be. In most cases she will text you back and say that she has accepted your appology. But she will not say anything about two of you meeting up.

#3 Plan how you can bump into her coincidently.

She being your ex girlfriend, you know where she works so plan to wait for her as she walks home from work. If she drives a car get to her work place just before closing time and delibrately bump into her. When you get this chance don't blow it. Use this face to face opportunity to tell her how sorry you are for being a fool and for being rude to her. If you have to get down on one knee try and do that. I know she won't let you do that of course but it is just a tactic you can use to get her to see that you are serious about everything

#4 If she forgives you make it up to her.

If she says that she excepts your apologies face to face then suggest a quiet drink some where later or at the weekend. Now don't think that everything will be back to normal. She is still a bit hurt and you will have to really make up for all the damage you have caused.