It's often said that girls should not be easy.
They should play hard to get in order to get the guy's attention.
That's true to a certain degree, but it can go too far.
No guy wants his girl to play too loose and fancy free, but he does want to get to know her.
If she plays too hard to get the chances are that he will stop trying and go elsewhere.
You should be elusive, but not impossible, a little bit mysterious, but not a total enigma, slightly secretive but not as secret as the Freemasons.
In short, there's a balance and you have to find it.
Find the fine line that puts you exactly where you want to be and don't cross over it.
1.
Hold back a little bit, but not too far.
Rushing in is for fools, but so is the total aloof attitude.
Find the right balance and stay there.
Be sure not to come over as unfriendly or seeming to think you are above everything around you.
Be in control at all times and play the game your way.
2.
Pick and choose what you want to do.
Go on a date by all means, but only if it suits you.
If it doesn't, then say so firmly, but not unfriendly.
He'll be intrigued by the fact that you can be firm and certain.
He'll want to know more about you.
That's playing hard to get the right way.
3.
Let him call you.
Be friendly when he calls, but don't initiate the call.
You have your life, which is private, and he will accept that if you demand it in the early stages.
No matter how liberated and emancipated girls are supposed to be these days, let him do the running.
It's a hunter thing with guys.
They love it, so let him hunt.
But remember, as a hunter he needs to bring back the "kill," so don't kill your chances by playing too hard to get.