For a long time now, the common sex question, "does size really matter to women" has been argued by various sex therapists.
Almost every adult male is interested in knowing the answer to that question.
It is clear that the minds of a large number of men are preoccupied with thoughts on whether their penis girth and length is big enough for their lovers or their would be lovers.
Some men have actually found ways to increase both their penis girth and length.
If you visit any search engine and type the phrase "penis enlargement" you would find a large number of merchants offering different kinds of products claiming to be the solution to your problem of a small penile size.
The mass media and the outrageous stories of men with big penis have resulted in a large number of men seeking an increase to their "special member".
Most women would definitely say that a man with a big penis is manlier and better in bed than a man with a small or an average penile size.
Now with the emphasis of most people on bigger things like bigger houses and bigger cars.
Women have adopted the adage that when it comes to sex "bigger is very much better".
Also we guys also have the mindset that a man with a big "sexual member" is much better in bed than a man with a small one.
We tend to associate a small penis with reduced masculinity, virility and in most situations impotency.
But do you know that most surveys including that of the famous Alfred Kinsey institute revealed that the average erect penis girth is between 4.
5 to 5.
0 inches, while the average erect penile length is between 5.
5 to 6.
4 inches.
I guess these figures would correct that notion you have that the average length was something around 8 inches (may be you have been watching one to many porn videos :-)) Although a large number of women love the feeling of deep penetration into their vaginas, women generally have more preference for a bigger penis girth.
This choice has to do with a thick penis being able to stimulate the G-spot of women, which is situated at about 2 inches deep in the upper wall of their vaginas.
The pleasure centers that are stimulated during sex are situated near the opening of the vagina and the anus.
Penis girth is of more importance to women than length as a thick penis can expand their vaginal and anal walls that stimulate their pleasure centers.
Almost all women love this pleasurable sensation of being full.
But what if a man has a thick sexual member as well as longer than the average "sexual organ"? Women usually cherish such men.
It seems women tend to hold on to lovers who are well equipped to give them explosive rounds of sex in the bedroom.
Although you might say the choice of a big, average or small sexual member varies from woman to woman, the simple truth is that women love the feeling that a thick penis gives.
Aside craving a big penis most women love intimacy, passion and emotional connection to their lovers.
Always treat your woman right.
Stop all your macho stuff and show her some affection once in a while with out wanting sex as a reward.
And if you happen to have a thick "sexual member" whoa! Your woman would always keep thinking of you.
She may even be bragging about your size to her friends.
If you have a small or an averaged sized "member", do not despair, as there are ways you can increase your penile girth and length.
But wait before you go trying out some weird looking device from who knows where, you should know that the safest way to increasing your penis naturally is by using a combination of a quality penis enlargement exercise program and a herbal penis enlargement pill.
This double combination work together in giving you your desired size.
Using only exercises would result in you waiting for quite some time to see any gains.
And using only pills would give you temporary gains that would be lost after you stop using such pills.