You have just broken up with the love of your life and you think there is no chance of winning back ex. You world may seem like it has came to an end. But winning back your ex is not hard if you take the right steps after your break up and if you have a "Love Recipe".

I will discuss later about a proven plan that will guide you through this tough time in your life. A plan about winning back ex that works like a "Magic Love Recipe".

Bur first I want to give you five tips on what to do or not to do after a break up with your ex.

1. Being Desperate

This is probably one of the biggest mistakes women make soon after a break up. You can not act desperate or needy in front of your ex or his friends. It will make you seem weak and downright pathetic. Do you really want to win back the love of your ex by making him feel sorry for you? Even if it worked, the relationship would not last long.

2. Beware of Shock

If you break up with your ex was recent, you may be suffering from some form of shock. You may be in a daze, you emotions or either dulled or uncontrollable. You cannot focus on anything except your ex or the relationship. You need to breathe deep and try to calm yourself down and beware that you are not thinking straight.

3. Get Out of the House

Go out and be social, don't just mope around the house and fell sorry for yourself. More you keep to yourself the worst it gets, your mind will start imaging things that are not true. You may not want to go out, but winning back ex is about building your confidence. This will also show your ex that you are not needy and you can be with friends and enjoy yourself without him.

4. It Is Not The End of The World

Your ex may think that you can not live without him. let your ex know it is not the end of the world for you. Even though it may seem like it to you, you cannot let your ex or his friends know how you are feeling.

5. Don't Become a Stalker

You first response after a break up he to call you ex and profess your love for him. You may try to call, text, or email him over and over again. This is a process called "drunken dialing", you just can't seem to help yourself. You don't have control of your emotions.

This "drunken dialing" activity will push him farther away. He needs time and space to think through his emotions. A man will take much longer than a woman.

At this moment you need to get your act together, winning your ex back can be easy if you take the time before you act to think and get a plan together. What you need is a "Magic Love Recipe", a recipe for winning ex back.