One of the worst things about relationships is the fact that your girlfriend can just ruin your day by deciding that she just does not want to do the relationship thing with you anymore. It's a sad truth, but most break ups are initiated by the woman, so the guy is usually left to try and deal with things. And if you try and bring up the subject with your friends, they are more than likely just as clueless as you are about how to get her back.

It's really not that hard to get back together with an ex girlfriend, just based on the fact that you already know that there was a time when she did want to be with you. The trick is, to not let yourself get in the way and prevent her from coming back to you. And this is what ends up happening to most men. They blow whatever chance that they have of getting back an ex girlfriend just by making the wrong moves or saying the wrong things.

Here are 3 tips to help you get your girlfriend back:

1. Stay confident that you are someone she is attracted to.

She might not be right at the moment, but that does not mean that she never was or that you cannot make her feel that way about you again. It's easy to let doubt creep in and start second guessing whether or not she finds you attractive or if you are her type, but that is just because you are probably thinking about things too much.

2. Make your ex girlfriend aware of the fact that you are ready to make changes.

Women complain all of the time about guys not being willing to change or the fact that most men will say that they will and then they never do. You want to show her that you *are* ready to change, so that she can tell you are not just blowing smoke by her or saying whatever you can to try and bring her back.

3. Learn how to use her own female psychology to trigger her to feel attracted to YOU again.

When it comes to female psychology in terms of dating and relationships, the average guy is totally at a loss. The cool thing is, it's really not that hard to 'get' what it is that will make her attracted to you and what will make her want you back. And you can trigger that feeling in her again so it's almost like she cannot resist it.