When it comes to getting the hottest girl when you're out on the prowl, you'll need to avoid being the nice guy.
The old saying that they finish last is definitely true, and you'll quickly find that this will sink your chances immediately.
This is not a call for you to be mean or find yourself in a situation that is not conducive to being nice, it's more so a label that many need to shed off to be whole.
If you really want to get a girl to hook up or for more, you'll need to shed light on how to chat and flirt without giving away too much about yourself.
The following tips will help you move in the proper direction, if you keep a few things in mind.
First and foremost, it's imperative that you not apologize for anything that you say or do.
Make sure that everything you are doing is deliberate, and what your opinions and thoughts are should not become a constant notion of apology.
Not only that, you do not have to ask whether or not the date or conversation is going well, or whether or not the girl is OK.
If you ask these things, you will not go home with her and she will not come home with you.
Instead, be confident, and approach the situation in a manner that lets her know that you're not nervous, even if you are.
In order to shake off any sort of nervousness, think about the situation from a distance.
You have to remember that she probably gets hit on a lot, and most guys are falling over themselves to talk and find out about her.
They'll give pickup lines and uncomfortable topics, and will most likely not pay attention to what she says, as they just want to speed along to the end of a date or interaction.
Instead, ask about her, and let her talk.
If she is short on answers, and is not at all interested, then you must not push it too hard, instead, direct questions that require follows up.
Finding things to talk about is not difficult, you just have to pick up on visual cues.
When in doubt, ask about her earrings, dress, or something rudimentary, and ask to buy her a drink or something friendly.
The ultimate thing to do when you're floundering is simple, disregard her, and go outside.
That's right, you're going to be the bad guy here, and that will be something that most women will either love or hate.
If she hates it, don't worry, you'll find someone better, but chances are if she's a knockout she'll wonder why you are so confident that you'd leave her be for a moment.
Not only that, others will try to hit on her while you're absent, and she will run into you in favor.
This is just a last resort thing, don't go around doing this often, unless you find that it works great for you.
If you're not sure about any of the aforementioned, then just make sure that you don't reveal your "nice" guy qualities too fast.