Are you in a relationship where things are never about you? Do you feel like breaking free? Can't you make independent decisions? You are not alone.
There are millions of women who are in a controlling relationship.
But how can you survive this kind of relationship? You must understand that controlling men have problems with themselves, and the best way to survive this kind of relationship is to address these problems.
You must first identify the signs of controlling relationships before you can resolve this concern.
You must also observe which situations where your partner is controlling.
How will you manage to do that? If you know the right ways to handle a controlling relationship, you can transform your relationship into a stronger and better one.
This is not very difficult.
Here are some things that you can do in order to stop him from being controlling.
Tip #1: Make Him Feel Important Make your man feel that he is important and you will never look at other men anymore.
You can do this by simply waking up early and preparing his breakfast in bed.
You can also do this by sending him simple presents even when there isn't any occasion to celebrate.
This will make him feel that he is the only one in your heart and there is no need to be controlling.
Tip #2: Address His Fears Men become controlling if they fear rejection and abandonment, and if they are insecure.
The best way to handle this is to assure him that you will never leave him and you're always at his side whenever he needs you.
Don't give him reasons to be insecure.
You can start ending your controlling relationship by making him feel secure.
This means you need to show how much you love him whenever possible and assure him that you are happy with him.
Make sure he knows that you will no longer look for another man because you already found the right man in him.
Saying "I love you" more often would also help.
Tip #3: Gain His Trust This is very challenging as one of controlling men's biggest issue is trust.
He can tell you what to wear, how to use your money, keep you away from your friends and family and more.
But if you really love this guy, do all your best to gain his trust.
For example, he thinks that if he gives you too much money, you will only use it in going out with your friends or leaving him.
You need to do the opposite of what he expects you to do - so when he gives you a lot of money, use it to buy the necessary grocery items and your primary needs and stay at home.
Seeing you sitting in the couch and waiting for him to come home from work will really surprise him.
This takes a lot of patience but is very rewarding in the end.
You need to help your partner address his fears if you want to survive a controlling relationship.
This takes time so you really need to wait until he finally gain his confidence and learn to trust others.