Is he adorable and funny and charming, and you want to make his yours? Is this a fantasy that easily comes to mind as you lie in bed at night, but once you get up and glance in the mirror, you doubt it will ever happen for you? Are you doomed because you think you don't have the right look to catch a man? You are not doomed and you have just as much of a chance at landing that great guy as any other woman.
The influence of the media can be felt and seen everywhere.
Normal looking women are left to feel inferior and undesirable when compared to the goddesses who constantly grace the screen.
That is TV.
Let's face reality.
Walk down the street, go to a movie or even stroll through the aisles of the grocery store.
Are all the happy couples you cross gorgeous, sexy and hot? I doubt it.
Chances are they look pretty much like you and me.
So what does that tell you? Love sees past physical appearances and really gets to the heart of who you are.
So who are you? Ask yourself this; when a man sees you, what does he see? Don't say plain, fat, frumpy or ugly.
Does he see a woman with confidence? A sense of humor? A kind heart? A sassy sense of self? A fun adventurous streak? Or a gift for interesting and intriguing conversation? Or are you hiding in a corner? Saying nothing to no one? Sulking and pouting? Being grumpy and unpleasant? And do you just bore whoever speaks to you by constantly putting yourself down and down and down.
You see, it's not so much what you look like as how you present yourself.
The plain looking woman who has an effervescent smile that lights the room is going to get a lot more attention than the hot blond who pouts and arrogantly looks down at everyone.
Men want a woman they can talk to, no matter what she looks like.
He wants to feel comfortable when he's with her and wants to have a good time.
Makes sense, doesn't it? I mean a girl can be pretty as all get out, but if she's boring and dreary and unpleasant, what's the point? He can only appreciate her good looks so long.
Sooner or later he's going to tire of looking at her and will want more.
Always be prepared to offer more and you will get him to fall in love with you.