Has the time finally come and you want to make that special man commit to you? Are you worried that he may just be in it for the fun and games and you want to know how real this deal is? Are you contemplating pushing him into making a final decision with regards to you, but you're afraid of how he'll react? Pushing and shoving a man into committing is rarely a good idea.
Read on to find out what you can do to ease him into committing to you.
The best way to get a man to commit to you is to make him see all the great things you bring to his life.
Find out the things you guys have in common and let the relationship blossom from that point.
You don't have to force any aspect of the dating process and you shouldn't pretend to be something you're not just to impress him.
Be the real you, but do try to be on your best behavior.
During this time, remember to keep a tight hold on your own life.
Some women make the mistake of dropping everything to spend all their time with this new man.
Not only is it always risky business to drop your life for his, but, without even realizing it, you're becoming more dependent on him.
As much as a man may want to please you and make you happy and want to do things with you and to support you, he also wants to know that you can stand up on your own.
You also want to avoid appearing desperate or needy.
In addition to respecting and admiring the things you have going on in your life, your frequent absences will make him realize even more how great he feels when you are around.
This will be the added nudge he needs to really come to a decision and commit to you.
If all else fails, sit down and talk to him.
But be very careful with what you say and how you say it.
Just let him in on what you're feeling; perhaps he'd not even thought of your hopes for a committed relationship.
Prepare ahead of time what you want to say and make sure your words and tone reflect how you feel without making him feel cheap, wrong or guilty.
Get him to commit by being gentle, understanding and patient.