Infidelity among husbands is a common ground why many marriages are put to the test. Unfortunately, a lot of relationships break-up in divorce, while some continue to be on the rocks. If you are an honorable wife, the emotional burden can sometimes be unbearable to the extent of doing the same thing or initiating a divorce, knowing that your husband is betraying your trust.

The intense surge of emotions like anger, jealousy, depression and hatred may compel you to react impulsively, making the situation worse and more complicated. However after doing it, you still feel miserable for not having resolved the problem of infidelity totally. It's normal for a decent woman to get mad and hurt, but you should never let the situation go out of hand that could bring remorse in the end. Don't ever lose your head and yourself; instead, try the following steps to make.

Get a grip of yourself. It all starts with a suspicion as a woman with strong instincts on matters of infidelity. If you feel that you are being cheated by your husband, don't be hysterical. Instead, try to gather solid evidence that your husband is indeed cheating on you, but don't confront him immediately after having the proof.

Face and accept reality. When you have confirmed your suspicion that your husband is guilty of infidelity, you have no choice but to accept reality. Truth hurts initially, but when you learn to accept failures, then, that's the time that you can act on it diplomatically.

Evaluate yourself and your marriage. Ask yourself questions that will evaluate the kind of relationship that you share with your husband. Think of possible reasons which led him to indulge in infidelity.

Give your husband a reason to rectify his infidelity if you want him back. Don't beg, plead, cry or nag; the more you do it he'll become more irritated. Just please him with everything that you do.