Men have this constant need for space.
There is not one guy who says that he doesn't need his space.
And this want has become the bone of contention for many.
But what we women don't realize is that if you can't fight them, join them.
You can be rest assured that if you give him space he will begin to miss you.
Here is how you can use distance constructively Give him his time to be with his friends Almost all guys have a designated time that they would like to spend with their friends.
Don't make any fuss or try to make him cancel out on this time.
Do not try to guilt trip him into staying at home with you.
He will really love you when you do this for him and will also constantly wonder why you are doing this.
Don't contact him when he wants to spend "alone time" If he tells you that he wants to be alone, do just that.
Leave him alone.
Don't call him, text him or leave a message on his answering machine.
Let him be 'alone'.
Soon he will begin to realize that having you around is as important as not and will miss you.
Let him fulfill his silly wishes Don't kick up a fuss if he says that he wants some time alone to do something that you find silly.
Tell him it's fine that he wants to do whatever it is.
Again don't contact him during this alone time and he will begin to miss you.
Don't demand spending time with him Demanding that he 'has to' spend time with you only makes him want to spend time alone.
Instead let him feel that just like he has his needs and desire to spend alone time, you do too.
The next time you know he wants to do something you can make yourself unavailable.
He will being to miss you and will not know what to do with so much of space.
Don't initiate anything If he wants space then step back and don't initiate anything.
And by anything we mean "anything".
So no calling, texting, face booking, my spacing, twittering or making plans in advance so that he can arrange his schedule.
Don't take any interest and soon he will see what he's missing out on.
Don't talk about it Don't give this development any importance by talking about it to anyone.
When he sees your complete lack of interest he will begin to miss you.
Get busy with your life and have fun Don't make the space issue a big a deal.
Get busy with your life and have a good time.
He will realize that there is more to a relationship than just space.