Looking for a girlfriend? Then, you've come to the right place.
In this article, we're going to discuss looking for a girlfriend using the law of attraction.
First, what is the law of attraction? Well, in a nutshell it's the idea that like things attract each other.
And humans relate to the world by thinking and feeling things.
So, the ways that humans attract things are through thinking and feeling about them.
And to many law of attraction practitioners, the universe aligns things for you based on how you think and feel, but honestly, I'm skeptical of this idea.
It seems to me that though the world around you appears to changes and the things you want appear more readily in your experience, that this has more to do with a change in awareness, perspective, focus, and goal sets than with the universe.
However, quibbling over this won't get us anywhere.
So, how do you use the law of attraction when looking for a girlfriend? Well, the major ways are to imagine new possibilities and to overcome "blocks"--you know, those really negative thoughts in your head about how terrible you are, how little you deserve, "she'll never like me'', "I don't make enough money for those girls...
", "I'm too old to find love", etc.
First, imagining new possibilities is incredibly helpful because it allows your mind to learn new ways to act in situations and make you the best possible person you can be in a given situation.
What I mean is that if you know a different way to act in a situation, then you'll be able to be different in it.
What keeps people stuck is that they just keep doing the same things in the same situations expecting different results.
And until you change the thinking and feeling helping you to get those results, you won't change the results your getting.
So, imagining new ways to act is incredibly helpful because it lays the pathways for future experiences.
Second, getting rid of blocks helps you to uncover the thoughts and feelings that are stopping you from having the life that you really want.
Because as the law argues, what you're thinking and feeling is what you're getting--if you're thinking and feeling like a loser or ugly or stupid, then it's hard to attract women.
And if you can't attract women because of these negative thoughts and feelings, then you might as well not be looking for a girlfriend as you probably repel them.
If you can overcome these, then you won't be blocked by them in the same way.
In other words, what I'm trying to argue is that our thoughts and feelings performatively construct our lived experience.
And the more that we think and feel a certain way, the more certain we are that the world just is that way.
In other words, many times we're out looking for a girlfriend, we're actually out repelling a girlfriend; however, minor shifts in our mind states can make make shifts in our lives...