First of all let me tell you that you are not alone. More than 2 million couples file for divorce each year and twice as many go through marital difficulties. That is one great big statistic! So if time is not on your side and you don't want to be a statistic then you have come to the right place.

One of the first things that you can do if your lines of communication are still open between you is to ask your partner to be open and honest about your relationship, and how they feel about it. Provide an environment whereby they can safely and comfortably share what they are feeling without the risk of retaliation. There may well be an underlying root cause that may well have manifested itself into other things, but you need to find the main problem or root cause in order to try to turn your marriage around.

Once you have found the root cause of the marital problem, show your partner that you are truly listening to them. Do this by acting upon what your partner has told you. You need to take the bull by the horns and make the necessary changes on your part to change your marriage for the better, however hard this that this might be. It may be that you feel that the problem it not entirely your fault, but compromise is the key here. If you can take action and start to make a difference your end, then your partner will see this and hopefully make the necessary changes on their side.

Try to be considerate towards your partner's feelings and wishes. If you can put the needs of your partner before the needs of yourself, then this will send a clear message to your spouse that you are changing and indeed, that bond between you that may have been lacking before, can be resurrected.

By acting now, it is possible to start to turn your marriage around if you are prepared to work at it. However this is just the tip of the iceberg. If you are serious about knowing how to save a relationship quickly and do not want to end up just another divorce statistic then you really need to visit www.marriagefixer.info for more essential marriage saving advice that you cannot afford to miss.