You need to understand that the lack or little shows of intimacy in a relationship overtime exposes your partners to the problem of keeping an affair with someone else that is ever ready to give him or her the attention and intimacy that they deserves. Remember that your partner meet other people in their offices.

 Workplaces, business places, shops and even during a workout who are daring to give your partner the attention ,they need. You also need to know that generally most people cannot stand the lack of intimacy in a relationship and may easily give in to somebody outside your relationship that may be putting pressure on your partner to provide him/her the attention they need. You can now see where the major cause of a problem in a relationship could be ,which is not one of the partner keep an affair bit basically lack of intimacy between the partners in a relationship.

 To save your relationship from a break up , you will need to correct this problem if you are a victim in your relationship with your partner and work on maintaining a serious level of intimacy with your partner. Other problems that may cause an affair may be due to the habits of one of the partners being addicted to pornography,hence over a period of time will be having the desire to be with different kinds of persons in the opposite sex .This is a very bad and serious habit that should be avoided and corrected if you are a victim of such a problem.

 You need to understand that your partner is unique and special to you and not try to evaluate him/her as a sex machine or what you see in pornography that kills a relationship gradually. Work towards correcting these habits in order to save your relationship from a breakup .Remember that most of the things in pornography are exhibitions of commercial sex workers that earn their living there and if you have no business there, do not take what is shown there serious as it may not really work in the real world.

 Addiction to pornography may destroy your relationship with your partner and not build it up, so in order to save your relationship from a break up , change or correct this ugly habit. To save your relationship from a break up, you will need to seriously sit down with your partner and seriously discussed about the problems and challenges that both of you are facing in the relationship and sincerely work together towards correcting it .

 Both of you will need to be sincere to each other by accepting your faults and showing a serious commitment to correct it or change for the better. If your partner is telling you about the true of the problems of the relationship and that you are at faults, you should be ready to accept t and be ready to make amends, in order to save your relationships from a break up . After identifying all the problems in a relationship, start by creating an action plan to in order solve the problems .

 The next thing is for you to take concrete steps on your action plan. Increase the time you people spend together like you used to, plan a new dating night out together every week. Take turns by coming up with various creative ways to spend an evening together every weekend after work. If the problem of communication is the challenge, both of you will need to commit to spending about 30 minutes together before going to bed just talking about the day's activities to one another.

 Finally, you need to understand that saving a relationship from a break up is an ongoing process that needs to go on week in week out in order to build up the confident and trust in the relationship.</p>