At the moment of your most profound grief, the notion that you need to write a eulogy for your dearly departed is no doubt a frightening one.
But before you decide that you can't possibly consider such a responsibility at a time like this, take a few moments to reflect on your decision.
There is no greater honor you can bestow upon your loved one than to write a eulogy celebrating his or her life and legacy.
The eulogy should focus on life rather than on death.
Therefore, the very process of writing a eulogy can be a cleansing and cathartic one.
Likely you will even find that you take comfort in reflecting on your loved ones life - all that he or she loved, stood for, and accomplished.
The eulogy is your forum for remembering your dearly departed the way he or she would want to be remembered - and sharing with others the little things that made him or her special.
So give the task some serious, honest evaluation before you assume that you can't write a eulogy.
Talk to some people you know who've given funeral speeches in the past.
Think of eulogies you've heard yourself that were particularly touching or memorable, and use them as examples for what you should do.
Get some advice from other family and friends about special little moments they think you should include.
Lastly, just remember to be honest and upfront - and speak from the heart.
Afterwards, you've been happy with your decision.