There are many different ways that you can get an ex back. Some are above board and others are a bit more underhanded. The problem with underhanded methods is that while they might work, when your ex finds out what has been going on, they will be angry and hurt and this can cause them to leave you all over again. While you would get to be with your ex for a little while, you won't get to enjoy it since you will always be worried they will find out that you lied or that you behaved dishonorably.

The first way that you can get your ex back is actually to do the opposite. Back off and make yourself scarce. While you might think that being around your ex will keep you in their mind, you may come off as needy and unstable. All of these things will make your ex back even farther away. You want her to wonder what you are up to instead of whether or not you are stalking her. If you suddenly make yourself hard to find, they will wonder what you are up to. Give your ex a chance to miss you.

Another tactic to get your ex back is to woo her. Show her that romance is not dead. Once she wants to be around you again, start treating her with courtesy. Look at this like a second courtship. You want to remind her why she loved you once and want to rekindle the relationship. Always remember to try and remind her of the good times that were happening early on and not the troubled times just before the relationship ended.

Be considerate. Women love it when they feel that the man in their life supports their emotions and understands what a large role emotion has in their life. When she wants to talk to you, be prepared to talk. You may be in for a long haul and much of what she says may not be pretty. Remember that she will need to dredge up the issues that affected your relationship. Women tend to dissect things in minute detail in order to fully understand them. Don't let her walk all over you but you can use this time as a way to reconnect and let her know your side of things.

There are a few things you should not do. Don't invent a crisis to try and win her back. Don't lie to her, or seduce her best friends in an attempt to make her jealous. It might work but at what cost? You will (or at least, you should) feel guilty and this can taint the enjoyment you will feel at getting back together with her. If you are dishonest when you are trying to win her back you will destroy any chance might have of getting her back permanently since she will feel that she is unable to trust you about anything.

If you want to get an ex back there are ways to go about it that are effective and honest. Being honest can be the best way to find your way back into her heart and her life.

The first way that you can get your ex back is actually to do the opposite. Back off and make yourself scarce. While you might think that being around your ex will keep you in their mind, you may come off as needy and unstable. All of these things will make your ex back even farther away. You want her to wonder what you are up to instead of whether or not you are stalking her. If you suddenly make yourself hard to find, they will wonder what you are up to. Give your ex a chance to miss you.

Another tactic to get your ex back is to woo her. Show her that romance is not dead. Once she wants to be around you again, start treating her with courtesy. Look at this like a second courtship. You want to remind her why she loved you once and want to rekindle the relationship. Always remember to try and remind her of the good times that were happening early on and not the troubled times just before the relationship ended.

Be considerate. Women love it when they feel that the man in their life supports their emotions and understands what a large role emotion has in their life. When she wants to talk to you, be prepared to talk. You may be in for a long haul and much of what she says may not be pretty. Remember that she will need to dredge up the issues that affected your relationship. Women tend to dissect things in minute detail in order to fully understand them. Don't let her walk all over you but you can use this time as a way to reconnect and let her know your side of things.

There are a few things you should not do. Don't invent a crisis to try and win her back. Don't lie to her, or seduce her best friends in an attempt to make her jealous. It might work but at what cost? You will (or at least, you should) feel guilty and this can taint the enjoyment you will feel at getting back together with her. If you are dishonest when you are trying to win her back you will destroy any chance might have of getting her back permanently since she will feel that she is unable to trust you about anything.

If you want to get an ex back there are ways to go about it that are effective and honest. Being honest can be the best way to find your way back into her heart and her life.