For generations the numbers of intermarriages couples have increased, as well as separation or divorce of them.
The enthusiasm to share and learn from another culture awakening for many couples at the beginning of the relationship, be frustrated by factors at the beginning do not matter but they may be crucial to their future relationship, if you pay attention on the right time.
- Language is an essential factor in the communication of the couple, because it is the intonation, how to use words which have a different message in each language, which may be perceived wrongly * when you do not know the language well or if you do not clarify the real intention of your message, then you can create misunderstandings later.
- The habits acquired by the roots of the place of birth are some of them welcome or received with humor but the ones are criticized or not tolerated must be carefully pointed as they may create disappointment and resentment * in the other person.
- The decisions on favour of both sides, it is in most cases very difficult to make, especially when it comes to mixed couples.
They have their interests that are influence based on their family, religion, and education.
It is noted that in most cases, the financial aspect is the primary reason for which one yields to accommodate the other, and it is this attitude that leads to thinking you have the right to require or demand * of the other person.
- The ability to integration is a vital root in the mixed couples, which require patience and understanding on both sides.
This can be easier if both are foreigners in another country, but when one is at home, then the most pressure * is for the visitor, it is important to keep this in mind when you think that the partner-visitor does not meet your expectations of the moment.
Intermarriage share the day with a variety of situations where tolerance and understanding are testing the love they have.
The simplicity of the above factors may lead you to not give the due importance of the case, but remember that the index fits mixed couples divorced continues to rise, and it is because the basic and simple factors are not working.
Remember that it is possible for you to achieve that cultural differences always keep up the enthusiasm and joy of the first day.
* Reasons that may make your marriage end.
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