Research Night Time Attractions In Your Destination

Setting out looking for a bar or pub can often be an interesting way to explore a destination, but for those who are concerned about exploring the night life of a destination, research can be a very useful tool. By looking at where the best bars are and following recommendations by other travelers about friendly places where it is easy to relax and meet people, this can often help you find a good place to choose where you should start your evening.

It is also worth looking at quirky or alternative attractions that can be enjoyed in the evening, such as night time tours of museums or cultural attractions, or even a show displaying the best traditional local music and cuisine.

Live Music

Live music is not only wonderfully entertaining, but it is a great place for those who are traveling solo and are unsure about where they can go to enjoy the local night life. Seeing a local band playing their music is not only a great conversation starter if you are looking to meet and talk to locals, but if the conversation starts to dry up then you can just sit back, tap your feet and enjoy the music.

This is a popular way to have a night out around the world, but can be particularly fun in countries such as Ireland and Argentina, while listening to the famous music of New Orleans and enjoying the amazing Montreal Jazz Festival are great ways to enjoy the best live music. 

Drink Responsibly

When it comes to enjoying a good night out, alcohol can be a lubricant that helps people to open up and to talk to new people, but it is important not to become too loose. Whether you are drinking with new friends or having a glass or two of wine as you talk to strangers at the bar, it is always important to drink responsibly, and not to become drunk.

It is easy to let your hair down and drink to excess when you meet new people, but make sure you keep your wits about you and remain safe and secure.

The first thing to note about sitting at the bar is that it means you can talk to the bartender, which is useful if the area is fairly quiet or there is no one else to talk to. Bartenders can sometimes be the best locals to talk to for advice on the destination! 

Sitting at the bar also gives you a good vantage point across the rest of the bar, from where you can see everything that happens. As everyone will want to get a drink, it is also a good spot to start conversations with others while they wait for their beverage.

This is often the most challenging thing of all when it comes to being at an unfamiliar bar, and while it is easier to go into your shell and sit quietly, it is well worth trying to start up a conversation. Whether you are testing out a few tentative words in a new language, or engaging in a full blown conversation about a local sporting event or attraction, the first step is always the toughest.

It is also important not to take rejection personally.

 If someone is on a date with a partner or getting a round for their friends, they may not have the time to really get into a conversation with you, so move on, and start talking to the next person instead.